Making STEM a better place for women

[bdaroz]

I feel like I'm running the risk of touching the third rail getting into this but...

Harassment has two definitions, (a third sometimes if a school is involved), the dictionary and legal definition. A quick google search:

Dictionary (From Google search page):

aggressive pressure or intimidation.

Legal:

the act of systematic and/or continued unwanted and annoying actions of one party or a group, including threats and demands.

Perhaps this will help you both see each other's arguments from the other's perspective.