Please dont... But HOW?

[Bharat Nain]

Tip # 3

*Okay, I should not criticize, then how should I handle a situation?*

The Answer is:

1) Praise first, and then criticize, if you cant avoid criticizing.
2) Put it in terms, that a mistake is easy to correct.
3) Do it Sincerely

A postive attitude helps. The reason I say Sincere, is when you talk to people, wheather u want it or not, people know whats in your heart and mind. Its just the way things are.

The Big Key: You have to sincerely get intrested in other people, for others to like you, and thats when they like you, and you start becoming famous, prosper in life. From what I have seen around in the forum, Ken Leung is a person of that sort. There may be many of you, like that...

Anyways that all for today
laters

[ProjectDEAD]

simple fact of the matter when u have a diverse set of people you cannot sit their and talk about religion/politics/and other such things that ppl take offense 2...

secondly alot of people have to realise regardless of what these people say its just forums... and you also have to realise that most of these ppl wont even look you in the eye in real life... so whenever i feel like im going to start fighting with someone i just realise whats the point... they are just kids my age or younger (im 17) or adults that dont know how to be adults trying to get a rise out of someone to make them feel good about themselves via a computer because they cant in real life... its sad and it helps me feel sorry for them(the ppl starting fights that is)...

[Bharat Nain]

Originally Posted by ProjectDEAD

simple fact of the matter when u have a diverse set of people you cannot sit their and talk about religion/politics/and other such things that ppl take offense 2...

secondly alot of people have to realise regardless of what these people say its just forums... and you also have to realise that most of these ppl wont even look you in the eye in real life... so whenever i feel like im going to start fighting with someone i just realise whats the point... they are just kids my age or younger (im 17) or adults that dont know how to be adults trying to get a rise out of someone to make them feel good about themselves via a computer because they cant in real life... its sad and it helps me feel sorry for them(the ppl starting fights that is)...

AWESOME POINT. You got the right attitude. This is so good and so important I am going to repeat it "they are just kids my age or younger (im 17) or adults that dont know how to be adults trying to get a rise out of someone to make them feel good about themselves via a computer because they cant in real life... its sad and it helps me feel sorry for them(the ppl starting fights that is).."


Human beings starve for recognition, they want to be great, and treated great. That is why we are at FIRST, and that is why when our team is playing on the field, we cheer for them, and we are just praying in our hearts, "C'mon [drivers name], please win".

It is a fact nobody can deny. Thats why when you praise somebody, they feel good about you and themselves. If you sincerely praise someone, they will like you.

[ProjectDEAD]

well just alot of emotion about in competitions... everyone likes to win, and no one likes to lose, but hey, how else can we be humbled! and learn!

[Bharat Nain]

True... We eventually do find joy in hanging out with people out there, even if we lose the competition. Fortunately, most of the teams on FIRST are humble. Otherwise we would have a FIRST Riot