Girls: Whats the best way to pick you up?

[Scorpion515]

Originally posted by Ben Mitchell
A question for the ladies out there: Guys holding doors open for you: Good, bad, or indifferent? Is me being chivalrous a waste of time, or a good thing?

--Ben Mitchell

Good!

[Pamela]

Its so cute when guys are polite and hold doors open, even if its for someone else, no matter who they are holding the door for its still a good thing!

[Judy]

I'm stubborned personally... if a guy tries to hold a door open for me, I make them go thru it... but that's just me being me, it's still nice they offered tho...
*hugz to all as alwayz*
Ann-Marie- team 783

[srawls]

hmm, let's see what I've learned from this thread. What's the best way to pick up a girl? It Depends! lol, girls can't make up their mind, who would've thought ok, that remark prolly won't help me pick any of you up. oh well, I'm just wondering if I'm the only one that's realized from the replies that it pretty much completely depends on the girl.

Stephen

[Melissa Nute]

Originally posted by srawls
hmm, let's see what I've learned from this thread. What's the best way to pick up a girl? It Depends! lol, girls can't make up their mind, who would've thought ok, that remark prolly won't help me pick any of you up. oh well, I'm just wondering if I'm the only one that's realized from the replies that it pretty much completely depends on the girl.

Stephen

exactly

[Wetzel]

Women....
:rollseyes:

Wetzel

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Ducks out the back

[Stephanie]

holding doors open: good
being polite :good
being cooperative: good
offering help: good

being pushy: bad
being rude: bad
being chauvanistic: bad

and, yes, it does depend on the girl...

hope this helps y'all

[Maikettei]

Originally posted by srawls
I'm just wondering if I'm the only one that's realized from the replies that it pretty much completely depends on the girl.

Well, yes. Too often guys assume there must be SOMETHING they can do to understand girls, forgetting that every girl is different from the others. Is every guy the same? Of course not. Your best bet is to find the type of girl you want to attract. Then ask a girl similar to your type what she likes.

[A. Snodgrass]

One thing I havent heard mentioned...compliments are always good. But think out what you compliment first and make sure you actually MEAN that compliment. Also a universal one....treat the girl like she is your equal in intellegence. This might seem like Im stating the obvious...but Ive had it happen OH too many times to count. Which means respect...which I believe I already stated at one point. While certain things can depend on the girl, others are universal. Just paying attention, and LISTENING to what she says are always good things.

When you try to understand girls as a whole...you are doing a disservice to yourself and to the ladies out there. No woman is the same as another. That means that we all have different likes and dislikes. We are not a species to be deciphered. Which means we all act differently. Just try to figure out what you would LIKE to see in a girl, and look for that trait. And from experience, try to look at the personality as much as the looks. It will save you grief in the long run.

[AdamT]

Step one to getting a girl:

1) Think about your approach
2) Ask Mike Soukup for advise, he has THE BEST dating advise
3) Really listen to that advise and do what he says
4)Try and try again

and the final step:

5) Life is like one big "Champagne Room"; she can touch you all she wants, but don't even think about touching her...

[A. Snodgrass]

Ummmm adam...

[A. Snodgrass]

you forgot to mention where they can TALK to mikey about dating advice....

[AdamT]

Oh, you can find him around...he's got that one ear that is...oh man...SO sexy!

Try tigerbolt if you really want some good advise, we're ALWAYS willing to give advise in tigerbolt!

[A. Snodgrass]

THATS true.... Im referring to the second part about tigerbolt I mean. the ear....well...Im withholding judgement till I see it a second time in person.

[Amy Beth]

Originally posted by Ben Mitchell
A question for the ladies out there: Guys holding doors open for you: Good, bad, or indifferent? Is me being chivalrous a waste of time, or a good thing?

DEFINITELY a good thing, HOWEVER, not as a way to pick girls up. Just make a habit of always treating girls with respect (whether you like them or not!!) so that when you meet *her*, she will know exactly what kind of guy you are.