You write the forum rules

[Bharat Nain]

A good part of what I want to say is mentioned above.
What is comes down to is "Common Sense" which is generally uncommon, but still. It would be nice to put a couple lines before the "Submit" button. Did what I just write contribute to the conversation? Is it decent? Something along those lines, you get the idea.
The main problem here is most posters either flame on each other, insult each other directly or so. I think one of us should make a write up of Forum-Etiquette which basically describes how people have different views, opinions and feelings, and how we should learn to respect them even if they conflict with ours. Teach people how to disagree and yet get their point across to those willing to listen - "Don't give a hungry man food if he's not hungry". A good portion of it should also distinguish between "whining" and posting something useful. A write up would be useful, I think.

A problem with that is how many people are going to read it? The forum rules are good, very helpful, nice and sweet, but how many people actually read the FAQ? I know I did not until I got a bad rep from someone about something I did not understand. Overall, I feel, no matter what we do new members are going to make stupid mistakes, and they should be forgiven. I also feel that we should guide them to do the right thing rather than "You stupid idiot, cant you read the whole thread, your question has been brought up already" - It should be a task for moderators and veteran members.


Finally, I would like to thank Brandon and ChiefDelphi for hosting such a good forum. You do a great job maintaining this place and always strive for better. Good job to all the moderators too.