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Unread 02-05-2002, 16:42
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but wut if its your good friend? And what if by persuing a relationship... you find out that she dosn't like you? And then becomes weirded out by the whole situation and then you grow apart... ? Then it becomes one big mistake... and you're not as confidant anymore..
I know that when I finally got the guts to ask one of my friends out and he said no we actually got to be better friends because of it because it was out there that I liked him as more then a friend so you have to remember that there are two sides to this sort of occasion so you are better off just going for it

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'Going for it' is a big risk, and for some reason, it is vey hard to do. Much harder than bungee jumping: if that goes bad, you lose your life, if this goes bad, you lose...quite a bit of self confidence. That hurts, espcially if you've been saving it up for a special occasion....
but if you dont go for it you might lose the love of your life because you are afraid to take a simple risk and that would actually be worse.......I know that i would rather have a guy come right out and ask me out rather than just acting like they like me, but being to afraid of 'going for it'...... that has happened to me and that guy has now lost his chance with me because he was to afraid to ask me out..... so take your chances well you still have them open to you....dont wait forever trying to decide if you should or not
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but if you dont go for it you might lose the love of your life because you are afraid to take a simple risk and that would actually be worse.......I know that i would rather have a guy come right out and ask me out rather than just acting like they like me, but being to afraid of 'going for it'......
That's exactly what I'm talking about! People that end up living their life wondering what would have happened if they had asked that chick out back in HS. I mean you do hear about it.

Now back to the whole ruined friendship thing.... Last year I had thins thing for this friend of mine. In fact, the reason why we were decent friends was cause i kinda liked him so I wanted to hang out with him and get to know him better...So we ended up working on this final project in our tech class, it was a huge presentation and the first parts of it were during this janitors strike last year, so we had to work on it outside of school...well, we went to his house twice to work on it and everything, I had so much fun, and I liked him even more... so me, not having the guts to tell him, gave his # to my best friend who told him... he turned me down and was worried that our friendship would be destroyed. Yea I was crushed, but I wasn't going to let it ruin everything, so i sucked it up and we're even better friends now.
So here's my point: It only all gets messed up if you let it, and thus, you should just go for it cause chances are, it could work out for the best...
K, this is too long already, i'm done.
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but if you dont go for it you might lose the love of your life because you are afraid to take a simple


Excellent point. Still, it is quite intimidating....
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Quain - To tell you the truth, I know how that is...one of my close guy friends was being extra friendly with me or so I thought, so I thought, sure maybe he wants a relationship...asked him on a date, I was rejected...we didn't talk for about four months afterwards, partly because it was way too ackward...but time heals all wounds, and we are now just a close as friends as we use to be. you and that girl should be better in time hopefully
I know exactly how you feel. same thing just happened to me two weeks ago (which happened to be the night after prom). Asked the girl out and she said she didn't like me. Now i get to sit next to her for the rest of the semester in my psychology class and we have to do an hour long presentation in 3 weeks together sucks alot but hey, life goes on.
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you want to know honestly how i act when i like a guy? the exact opposite of what all the other girls say. Other girls say touching, eye contact, etc...i am completely the opposite. I get shy, and awkward, can't look him in the eye. When it comes to guys, i am like a junior higher who never grew up. On the other hand, i tend to be very affectionate toward my friends (girls and guys alike!). I will smile, look them in the eye, laugh at their jokes even when they aren't funny, hug them, brush their shoulder, play with their hair (bop them )...
But for a lot of girls, i think the above are good indications that she likes ya. But i'm not a lot of girls...i'm just one, and mikey will confirm that i'm weird anyways.
Hey Amy Beth, we never met in florida, i think i saw you a couple of times, although we never made conversation I hope we will be able to keep in touch.

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Ewww psyc ISUs... don't remind me.... read the "i need help" post thing. But as I said above about that guy last year, it's not weird if you're determined for it not to be. I don't know why everyone let's it bother them so much.. yea, it didn't work.. sometimes it's worse if you did go out b4 you figured it didn't work, trust me! I lost one of my closest friends that way... and now I hate him because of his reaction to my telling him it wouldn't work. The point is tho, I got him to say what was on his mind.. and I said yes, because I knew part of me would alwayz wonder. Yea, we sacrificed a good friendship, but I would have rather done that then wondered what would have happened if we had gone out... atleast I know now he wasn't the guy for me... at ALL!
Point being: (I've had to do this every post lately cause I ramble on) again with the whole, carpe diem thing, just do it, because you don't want to have to wonder, it would suck! So sieze the moment and go for it, because yea, sometimes it ends in heart break, but atleast you can say you didn't let your fears get the better of ya!
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Seems to fit...kinda...

If you try and get rejected at least you'll know.

If you never ask, you will kick yourself down the road BIG TIME for never asking - cause u will never know.
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OK the lames lines I heard at nationals....Well since i was selling the raffle tickets for the atari my team was raffling, some kid said haha can i give you a dollar for your phone number. Why would you pay someone for their phone number? Oh and another one was, can I get a date with you two (me and my friend) instead of a raffle ticket,...The answers to both lines were NO!
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If you never ask, you will kick yourself down the road BIG TIME for never asking - cause u will never know.
But then if the relationship ends, you are left wondering what would have happened if this or this happened...bleh
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True...But at least you had the relationship for a bit...at least thats my point of view...

And hey, I have seen people be friends, date, and then be friends again....

I think it is definately worth the risk to try the dating.
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Wow.. I must say... from the size of this thread... us teens have a lot to say on the subject of love and relationships... wonder why....???
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Hmm... could be it's one of the most complicated topics that affects us...
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