Relationships

[Erin Rapacki]

I think that having relationships in High School is a good thing, even if the relationship doesn't work out or if there is a lot of pain involved. Learning how to Love is like learning how to read or do math, and the sooner you start... the better, because it will be difficult at times. When two students enter a relationship, they are given an opportunity to learn about friendship, dedication, social well-being, time management, and to learn about themsleves as individuals by assessing what they did and did not like about their partner.

I have experienced a lot of personal growth by being paired up with others, and though the relationship may not have lasted and included a lot of pain, I've grown into a better and wiser person. I've also discovered a lot about myself that I otherwise would not have known, including knowing what I want in other people if I were to consider being in a relationship again.

So take the risk or avoid it, its your choice. It is a good idea to know the other person before you start dating them. I've seen this happen too... if you have a best friend of the opposite sex and you just do not see you two going out as a 'couple,' that just might be the best partner that you can have. Both of you can be comfortable and neither of you should have to change. And if you do get into a relationship, don't start acting like the stereotypical boyfriend or girlfriend, be YOURSELF. There is such a thing as unspoken love.