The Opposite of Loneliness - Marina Keegan

[Taylor]

It's not Yale, but I think we've all caught a glimpse of what Marina was describing.
The shirts. The buttons. The capes. That feeling you get when you first glimpse the arena and all the empty pits, but they're not really empty. The world is filled with promise. When the last bit of confetti has fallen, and nobody leaves the field.
We are fortunate.

[Akash Rastogi]

Thanks for posting this John, it is definitely something to relate to.

A part that struck a cord with me was this -
"There’s this sentiment I sometimes sense, creeping in our collective conscious as we lay alone after a party, or pack up our books when we give in and go out – that it is somehow too late. That others are somehow ahead. More accomplished, more specialized. More on the path to somehow saving the world, somehow creating or inventing or improving. That it’s too late now to BEGIN a beginning and we must settle for continuance, for commencement. When we came to Yale, there was this sense of possibility. This immense and indefinable potential energy – and it’s easy to feel like that’s slipped away. We never had to choose and suddenly we’ve had to. Some of us have focused ourselves. Some of us know exactly what we want and are on the path to get it; already going to med school, working at the perfect NGO, doing research. To you I say both congratulations and you suck.
For most of us, however, we’re somewhat lost in this sea of liberal arts. Not quite sure what road we’re on and whether we should have taken it. If only I had majored in biology…if only I’d gotten involved in journalism as a freshman…if only I’d thought to apply for this or for that…
What we have to remember is that we can still do anything. We can change our minds. We can start over. Get a post-bac or try writing for the first time. The notion that it’s too late to do anything is comical. It’s hilarious."

This inspires me to not be afraid of changing my mind about my education or taking risks and heading into a new direction. For the past few months I've actually been in this boat (not sure about what I want to do anymore and seeing those around me accomplishing bigger and better things), and reading this piece really has been reassuring about what steps I want to take next in life.

Again, thanks for posting this John.

[JaneYoung]

Some of her parents' thoughts and wisdom are shared in this article.


We can learn from this family. How to live and how to be a part of a caring community.

Peace be with you, Keegan family.

Jane

[Libby K]

Wow. Thank you for sharing...
I'm graduating next year. Reading her work is hitting home with me.

Originally Posted by Taylor

When the last bit of confetti has fallen, and nobody leaves the field. We are fortunate.

I don't know about you, but that feeling makes me cry, every year.
You're right- we might not be Yale, but we have it too.

[Chinmay]

She was a really great student and this piece was just one of her many amazing articles. As a fellow Yalie, I know exactly what she described in this article, and every time I re-read it, I am more amazed at how effectively she was able to capture the essence of having that support network around you.
Thank you Marina.