Bad day!!!

[c-squared_2006]

Hey, I'm sorry if you find this annoying but I really have to complain. There's there boyfriend of my friend who is trying to take over both my life and her life. She is so innocent and clueless. I'm getting really annoying. My friend is not spending any time with me now. I feel left out! Hug anyone?!/

[Michelle 236]

I'll give you a hug! Boys can be so ridiculous!!!

[c-squared_2006]

I know... argh....

[MisterX]

I'd give u a hug but I dont think you'd want one from a boy right now. But I feel for ya girl, men can be pigs. Besides the sun will come out tomorrow and hopefulyl shed a new light on the subject
Anyway girl power!

[JIN]

Originally Posted by c-squared_2006

Hey, I'm sorry if you find this annoying but I really have to complain. There's there boyfriend of my friend who is trying to take over both my life and her life. She is so innocent and clueless. I'm getting really annoying. My friend is not spending any time with me now. I feel left out! Hug anyone?!/

Wow C.C., when you have a problem you really go public with it! Don't let it bother you too much, yes it was mean, but he just has NO sense for this kind of situation. I truly don't think Esther really understood how Dan would react, and I doubt Zhang MEANT to hurt your feelings. Things'll work out, they always do....

AAAWWWW, sleepy, too many long nights of studying . Nap time.... ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ.....

[KenWittlief]

all men are pigs :^)

[Mike Heinowski]

Originally Posted by KenWittlief

all men are pigs :^)

Yeah, thats true.

[JIN]

Originally Posted by KenWittlief

all men are pigs :^)

I see threads like this all the time, and I have to wonder, we can't ALL be bad can we? These posts imply that all men are pigs, immoral, lowly, sex craved, and overall less than human. Wow, I'm hurt .

I thought this post was only complaining about one boy, not the entire male population. Oh well...

Hey, I'm awake again!

[pryoplasm]

men may be pigs, and women may be the proverbial pearls before swine, but not all of us are bad

*huggles everyone in the topic*

[JIN]

Originally Posted by pryoplasm

men may be pigs, and women may be the proverbial pearls before swine, but not all of us are bad

*huggles everyone in the topic*

*sniff*. Ok, I'm better now .

[KenWittlief]

Originally Posted by JIN

I see threads like this all the time, and I have to wonder, we can't ALL be bad can we? These posts imply that all men are pigs, immoral, lowly, sex craved, and overall less than human. Wow, I'm hurt .

I thought this post was only complaining about one boy, not the entire male population. Oh well...

Hey, I'm awake again!

see when a guy says "all men are pigs" its not an accusation

its more of a confession :^)

[DarkJedi613]

Originally Posted by c-squared_2006

Hey, I'm sorry if you find this annoying but I really have to complain. There's there boyfriend of my friend who is trying to take over both my life and her life. She is so innocent and clueless. I'm getting really annoying. My friend is not spending any time with me now. I feel left out! Hug anyone?!/

Did you try talking to her/him/both about it?

And I do have to agree with JIN we can't all be that bad.

[JIN]

Originally Posted by KenWittlief

see when a guy says "all men are pigs" its not an accusation

its more of a confession :^)

But I'm NOT a pig, I'm not a jerk. Why should I confess to that? WWAAHH! I'm hurt again .

HEY! Someone actually read my post and agrees with me! WOW! That's something new! I'm happy again .

[JIN]

Originally Posted by DarkJedi613

Did you try talking to her/him/both about it?

And I do have to agree with JIN we can't all be that bad.

Thank you Dark Jedi! From what C.C. tells me, she did talk to them, and from what I heard it wasn't pretty. That's her personal space though so I'm not gonna say anything more. I'm trying ta help, but I don't talk very well around the opposite gender *blush*.

[Amber H.]

Okay everybody, first off, big hugs all around.
This is typical of situations some of the younger students here at the college come to me about. Even at my age I get sucked into a few.

A. This is really hard and I know you are suffering, but the best thing I’ve found is to start to get to know other people around you better so that you have someone to hang out with and a friendship support system while you’re waiting for your friend to realize what’s going on and how much she’s hurt you. Expanding your circle of friends to include others will lead you to opportunities and wonderful experiences that you never imagined. It will also give you more opportunities to do things for, and help others, which is really strong medicine for when you feel like used hay. Believe me it helps. It will give you strength and emotional resources to move on if the situation becomes irreparable.


B. If this guy is really that controlling, then maybe you should keep an eye (albeit a distant one) on your friend so that you will be better able to help her if she later wakes up and needs your help, and understanding. Don’t just look for bruises on the outside. Keep track of unhealthy behavioral changes such as pulling away from ALL friends and family, dropping grades, lack of interest in things that used to mean a great deal to her, and lack of sleep etc. Not all abuse is physical.

C. Yes there are many men who very easily fall into the category of “pig”. When we’re suffering because of one of these, we see them all as such. Just remember that there are many more who don’t meet the criteria of the swill club, such as most of the guys here on CD and the young men I’ve had the opportunity to live and work with here on campus. Heck, just go volunteer at a FIRST event. That will change your mind in a hurry. Those guys were awesome!

Hugs to everybody!