FAHA: Team leader who doesn't always lead...

[Ken Leung]

Are good mentors automatically good leaders? How about vice-versa? A lot of people on FIRST teams say adult mentors are the ones they have difficulties dealing with, because students are capable to accept changes and learn from others, whereas some adult mentors have often made up their mind on how to do things. You might say that students are better at admitting they are wrong, whereas an adult mentor have their reputation at stake.

The following FIRST-a-holic is dealing with a mentor on his/her team who show poor organizational skills and lacks simple courtesy when talking to the team members. The mentor's excuse is that he is busy, but is that really a valid excuse for blowing your students off when they need your help? Take a look at the letter:

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I'm having a bit of a problem with the leader of our team. He's a PhD student at the university where our team is hosted. My first and most basic problem is lab hours/schedule. He has put a 60-hour lab hour requirement on all team members to travel. This is easily achievable, but I've noticed that a lot of the time when I'm in the lab, there's nothing productive to do. It's (/me checks top of ChiefDelphi) 13 days until ship, and just last Saturday I was there for 5 or 6 hours, doing nothing most of the time. Either the college mentors working on a particular project aren't there, or they're doing all the work (or worse, being jerks and yelling at you when you want to help--acting in a very non-graciously professional way, to sum it up), or the lab isn't open.

Second, he's set out a clear schedule of when the lab will be open, but rarely manages to open it on time, or even within the hour after he said it would open. Often, he's not even there, and we depend on college students or other professors to keep it open, and they're usually busy. Ironically, he told us he was in the lab until the wee hours of the morning yesterday, which is not something us high school kids can do (we have homework, first of all, and the lab officially closes around 8 or 9).

Third, he doesn't handle basic organizational things, like coordinating two people working on a project, or even introducing them to each other. I've been working on our website, and he told me someone else was working on a design for it. That's great, but when I asked him if he could show me who they are (our team is composed of several high schools, so I had never met these people), he grumpily told me to "Go ask someone and figure it out." Then, this weekend, I found out that we had begun to duplicate each other's work. I had written a backend (just a simple template system with sections and pages in them that generates titles, navbars, etc...), copied a little content off the old site, and started on a layout, since nobody had contacted me about the layout. They had finished designing their layout, and had made a banner for the top of the site, and were going to do the scripting stuff themselves. Basically he set us up doing the same work and refused to put us in touch with each other. (The other two people said that we were indeed both there at the same time, and he just decided not to put us in touch with each other.)

I really don't know what to do here. I'm spending more and more wasted time at the lab, and I'm feeling frustrated that it's crunch time and our bad organization is making it impossible for me to contribute to the team. I understand that he's a busy person, but lacking the courtesy to tell people when you can't be somewhere when you said you could, and being so disorganized that you have two people doing the same work without knowing, is just beyond being busy or distracted.

I've been on this team for three years now, and I'd like to stay and possibly bring people from my new school, but it's turning into a nightmare right now, and I'm conflicted as to whether I want to stay or not.

Is this normal for a FIRST team? Am I just being selfish, or is something really wrong with how this is working?

Thanks for any advice you can give.

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