What do you wish you had known when starting college?

[Katy]

Some of my friends are nervous prefrosh and asked me to make a list of all the things I wish I had known when going to college so I made a list for them. It has stuff like "bring flipflops to wear in the bathrooms," "don't put styrofoam in the microwave," "bring a ton of quarters for laundry," and "this is how you cash a check."

Sadly however I am worried that I am going to not think of an awful lot of things.

So if you can think of something that you had to learn the hard way, or you had problems with, or just wish you had known before the problem was sitting right in front of you please post it here so I can be sure my list is as complete as reasonably possible.

[Eugenia Gabrielov]

I'm not in college yet, but this is important...

Facebook is really addicitive. I have a college account (purdue.edu)...I just can't stay away from it!

Really, it's really addictive.

[Koko Ed]

That it wouldn't take me 14 years to finish!

[GaryVoshol]

What I would be doing 25+ years later (now) so I could have better selected my classes.

[rachakate]

communication is key to any relationship, including student / faculty. If you've got something going on, talk about it. Your professors are people too!

[Jeff Rodriguez]

You'll get out of college whatever you put into college. Remeber, you're paying for it, so make the best of it.

Get to know your professors.

I also have the ultimate list of stuff to bring to college. It was passed down through about 15 people or so, I just typed it up. PM/e-mail me if you want it.

[Beth Sweet]

Remember to have fun with it! Don't be afraid to take chances, to be the person that you want to be. This is a new chance, a new start. The people at your college aren't going to know you, they will be just meeting you. Shape the person that you want to be, and become it.

Take some fun classes! Don't overwhelm yourself with all of your tough classes at once.

No matter how many times you forget your ATM code (I have the running record of all of my friends for forgetting it 6 times), go to the bank, bring your liscence and they'll give it to you.

BEWARE OF CREDIT CARDS! Most people haven't been out on their own before. Most people haven't had credit cards. There's no one there to tell you no. If you want to go to the mall and get 17 Louis Voittan purses, mom isn't going to be in your dorm room when you get back to yell at you to take them back. I have a friend right now who is paying over $300/month just in credit card interest. Don't do that, it's very bad.

On the other hand, don't be afraid to spoil yourself sometimes! Some of those things that mom and dad say no to at home (for me, it's my weekly ice cream run to Coldstone), you can have now. Just be sure to use self control.

Ratemyprofessor.com is your friend. If you don't see very much in the way of ratings, your school might have its own site. Talk to your RA, see if one exists. This site is your friend and will help you avoid a really bad semester.

Get to know your RA, they are older and have been there before. Every college is different, they will be able to tell you the little tricks of survival at yours.

And finally, HAVE FUN! This is college, one of the most fun times in your life! Enjoy it, make lots of new friends, and have the time of your life!

[kaszeta]

Originally Posted by Beth Sweet

Remember to have fun with it! Don't be afraid to take chances, to be the person that you want to be.

That's basically my advice as well. College is a good time for you to explore, figure out what you like doing, and try things out, both good and bad. More importantly, for most people it is their first chance to be an adult, which means the freedom to make your own decisions and push boundaries. As well as having to live with the consequences of your bad decisions.

On the other hand, don't be afraid to spoil yourself sometimes! Some of those things that mom and dad say no to at home (for me, it's my weekly ice cream run to Coldstone), you can have now. Just be sure to use self control.

MSU has a Coldstone now? Back in my day (BSME '95) they only had Melting Moments, the MSU Dairy Store (which was conveniently located directly between two of my classes almost every spring, and was only $0.50 for a single scoop back then), and half price tuesdays at the Quality Dairy.

[Beth Sweet]

Originally Posted by kaszeta

MSU has a Coldstone now? Back in my day (BSME '95) they only had Melting Moments, the MSU Dairy Store (which was conveniently located directly between two of my classes almost every spring, and was only $0.50 for a single scoop back then), and half price tuesdays at the Quality Dairy.

Yup, there's a Coldstone right off of Grand River on MAC. Melting Moments and the Dairy Store are still here. Dairy Store is still like, $1.50 or something for a couple of scoops.

[Not2B]

- Learn the words to the fight song, even if you don't like sports.

- Treat it like a job. You go to work everyday. I wish I knew that one.

- It's not just a job. Have fun. Try new things. It's not all study.

- Do something. SAE car, give campus tours, join an organization on campus. Something.

- Eat healthy. Yes - you can have Mt. Dew and pizza EVERY day. But soon you'll hate pizza, and no one wants to hate pizza.

- Don't be stupid. I have to remind the students on the robot team every week, so I assume college people need to know that too.

- Be yourself - not who you think you should be. College is the perfect time to do this.

- Just because you can buy 50 giant pixie stix with your roommates Sam's club membership does not mean you should eat them all at once. Laughing colored sugar out your nose will be your punishment.

- Don't call your family on April 1st and tell them you are in jail and you need bail money. They might forget it's April 1st. Especially if you tell them you got caught doing an April fools day prank. Mom's don't like that.

- Call home.

- Do laundry. At least once a month. Even if the smell doesn't bother you.

- Hang out with people from different majors. It's OK. I had more fun with a bunch of music majors...

I'm done for now... lots of life lessons from college.

[Melissa Nute]

Originally Posted by Not2B

- Do laundry. At least once a month. Even if the smell doesn't bother you.

Taking off from that, make sure your parents teach you how to do laundry before you leave home.

[Denman]

I laughed at some of those above.
Boring stuff first:

Although you have probably heard it before, don't leave your work til 20minutes before its due in ... it is so tempting to do so...
Try and be considerate to flatmates/neighbours... loud music is fine, but if they want to go to sleep, turn it down or relocate to someone elses room...


Facebook is way too addictive ... as eugenia said. You can sit there and find random stuff out from your friends and it just wastes your day
Don't sit around in your room... go to the uni bar (well, probably doesn't apply there) or to the common room... just do something
Laundry, do it at least once a week... not because of the smell, but because otherwise you get to the end of the month and everyone is doing huge amounts of washing... and you will be stuck waiting for hours : Best time of the week to do washing : first thing on a weekday... even better is to take a train home , stay at home for weekend with free decent nosh(food), and get your parents to do your washing

Originally Posted by Meli W.

Taking off from that, make sure your parents teach you how to do laundry before you leave home.

Get them to make some filing cards or fill in a notebook of random useful stuff , eg what the symbols mean on clothes labels, how to cook an egg until its safe, etc
If there is a day to sign up for various activities / societies, sign up to as many as possible. you don't realise how much time you actually get.

First week. Go out EVERY NIGHT! Meet people and make friends! everyone is in the same situation. keep this in mind and you shall suceed.


Enjoy your freedom from family, but try to pack up neatly before they come to collect you at end of term/year... get aload of the collapsable boxes to take your stuff in, then throw boxes under your bed.

Don't forget to pay for any stuff you need to, such as accomadation. you may get fined if you pay late. (like i lost £40 due toforgetting to pay...)

[Richard Wallace]

College was the best twenty years of my life.

I started as a dual-enrolled HS student because there was no calculus at my school back in 1975. I have credits from six colleges, all my degrees (BS'83, MS'85, PhD'90) are from Georgia Tech, and I spent four years as an assistant professor of Electrical Engineering at the University of Missouri. I finally left college for the 'real world' in 1995, and thankfully discovered FIRST a year after that.

The most important thing I can tell anyone about college is to enjoy it as much as you can and follow your imagination wherever it leads you. If your goal is to be a professional, then your education will never be complete. Keeping your imaginative fire burning should be your top priority. The knowledge and skills you can acquire are (like the money you can earn) just fuel to keep you moving toward the larger goals you set for yourself by constantly exercising your imagination.

[JVN]

Are you going to college to get a degree, or an education?

My experiences at Clarkson taught me, that in some classes, you can cram for the tests and pass the course without learning much at all. (Though you will often pay for doing so down the road, when you're expected to know the stuff you crammed and forgot).

If you go through college doing this, you will regret it.
So, now I ask people the above question, and ask them to remember this question throughout their college tenure.

Are you going to college to get a degree, or an education?

(Make sure you get both, I'm not advocating a Kamenesque career.)

[Denman]

Hmm. Best way to learn imo is to take notes. you tend to think stuff as you write them and it sticks in your mind...



shame i can't mention much on drinking, doesn't apply to you, theoretically....