As a college freshmen and mentor, I may have some good insight. I have made a few mistakes scheduling wise, but given the opportunity again, I would do it every time. Mentoring has been a great experience and I have learned so much. I have really grown to appreciate everyone on the team and I have made some of my best friends at college through mentoring the team.
My decision to mentor may not be the same as yours will be and I am not pressuring you mentor or take a few years off. Everyone’s situation is different and there is no definitive yes/no answer to your question. I am just going to give you my experiences:
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Deciding to Become a Mentor:**
I did not decide to become a mentor before going to college, but rather during. I could argue this is because I didn’t know the team existed before college, but it is still a good idea nonetheless. Use your first semester to gauge whether you can balance the workload. Jumping into two very new and very time consuming experiences is very stressful. Do not thrust yourself into both positions when you haven’t even gotten used to one of them. The first one you should get used to is always college. That’s why you are there in the first place.
When testing the waters of mentorship (which I would start doing around October/November assuming your first semester will be in the fall), only go to a couple of meetings a week. This wasn’t much of an option for me as the team I mentor (6844) only met two days a week in the pre-season.
Deciding Who to Mentor
Another thing that wasn’t an option for me but may be for you is to not mentor a team that is in dire need of help. If you choose to mentor a struggling team or a rookie, you may be put into more time consuming mentor leadership roles you may not have time for and compromise your schooling. While I definitely have learned a ton from being the team’s lead build/CAD/design mentor, it has been extremely taxing on me.
I would suggest you choose a more established team, one that ideally has a mentor or two in the thing you are interested in helping out with (in your case, programming). In this situation, you will still be able to effectively help the team, but also have flexibility in taking breaks when the semester gets tough. Flexibility is not something I had.
Working With the Team
The most important thing is communication
Before you commit to becoming a mentor, tell the head coach or mentor how much time you will be able to help out the team, and let them decide whether you are a good fit for the team and their schedule. At this point you should have gauged how well you can balance school and a meeting or two a week. If that was all you felt comfortable with, keep it that way. If it was easy for you, maybe add a day or two. I would not suggest an every weekday schedule, especially if team meetings during the build season are long. I showed up almost every day during build season, but most non-Saturday meetings didn’t exceed 2 or 3 hours. I could not imagine what every day for 5 hours would do to my grades.
Get in a good relationship with the team you are going to mentor, both the students and the mentors. You do not need the extra stress of dealing with a student or mentor who do not work well with. Luckily, I haven’t had any bad experiences with any of my fellow mentors or students on the Provotypes, but my level of stress was high as is. Any extra load from not working well with someone would have definitely had negative consequences.
During Build Season
This is pretty much an extension of your preparation from the previous few months. Communication is key, being realistic when you need to take time off is key. I would treat the times you gave the mentors as the cap for your time commitment. Don’t go over. Don’t compromise time to study or do homework. It’s good to be committed to the team, but don’t let that commitment compromise your commitment to school.
My Biggest Mistake
Don’t take more credits during the build season! I really wanted to get more classes out of the way in the winter and incorrectly gauged how difficult and time-consuming a few of them would be (I blame everyone who told me Multivariable is easier than Calc 2:rolleyes: ). Taking 16.5 credits during the build season is not fun. Don’t do it your freshman year. Don’t do it during build season.