I’m probably going to end up saying few things in a lot of words. Fair warning. The succinct version is the obvious conclusion: Listen to JVN.
I was going to be the exception to the rule. I read that thread someone linked to. I knew that wouldn’t be me. I’d already taken 2 college classes a year for two years. I was only on my team for a year, no one knows me as a real student anyway. FIRST couldn’t get to me, I will do just fine.
Nope.
JVN’s blog post is scarily accurate for my first year of college. While I didn’t get a 13% on my Thermo midterm (that’s next semester), to save my GPA I dropped below full load for a semester. That’s a BIG DEAL, if you couldn’t tell. You will potentially be faced with the choice between helping out a team of high schoolers and your own success, and you will face this choice before you even realize the consequences of your decision. I missed Calc classes, and didn’t realize what I was doing until it was too late. I’ve been incredibly lucky with how some stuff worked out here, but I dodged a bullet and I KNOW it.
Yes, that “could be you”. It will be you if you think it won’t. I thought it wouldn’t be me. I’m saying this bluntly and not dancing around the subject because you need to hear it. It happens before you notice.
At a time this year the leadership of the team I “mentored” was in question. At one time the thought in my mind was that I would take less of a load my sophomore year in order to better mentor that team. Read that sentence again. This is the kind of decision you will be immature enough to think is a good idea. If you’re honestly mature enough to make these kind of decisions, you will do so well in college that you won’t need this thread…
On mentoring your own team. This will not work. Honestly, I am painting with wide brush strokes, but it’s true. You will not be able to teach and inspire people on the same level as a professional mentor. The mentors and students already know you. You can’t just change hats and expect it to work. There’s really not much more to it than that. If you have a problem with this, I’ll try and elaborate more…
I feel it’s important to note a few things that JVN didn’t touch on directly, or at least in depth. Ask yourself at first why you want to mentor a robotics team. Mentoring, being a student… they’re obviously not the same thing. Do you want to do it because you enjoy building a robot? Well, you’re a mentor. Your job isn’t primarily to build a robot. You have to want to be a robotics mentor because you want to MENTOR, not because you like the system you’re mentoring in (though that helps!). If you TRULY see yourself wanting to use engineering to inspire students… then read everything I and JVN and everyone just said. But honestly, I think a lot of people that say they want to mentor in college, think about it before they even get there, and get ready to do that… I think a lot of you just want to be students some more, or “super students”. There’s plenty of programs for that. VRC has a College Challenge that’s honestly really cool. Mini Baja. Formula SAE. Design / Build / Fly. (Fun fact: iCurtis and I go to the same college. He joined Design / Build / Fly instead of 2791, I did the opposite. He’s graduating a year early, I have to hustle not to graduate a year late. I do not think this is a coincidence.) Anyway, my point is that I bet about 75% of FIRST students who want to be college mentors should really be doing cool stuff in college.
The other thing I feel should be said that wasn’t mentioned is that you do kind of have a “trial period”. First semester freshman year is far easier than the rest, yes, BUT (and I say this very carefully) you can use it to gauge how able you would be to handle FIRST. If you falter from a perfect record, with lots of free time and never skipping class because you don’t feel like it, maybe you can give it a try. If you don’t, you are asking for disaster no matter how many times you tell yourself second semester will be different.
If you are an idiot like I am, and decide to do it anyway, talk to the mentors on the team, or your advisor or trusted older friend at college. Have them watch for the warning signs, you skipping any classes or not studying for any tests. Have them let you know it’s okay to miss a meeting; you can’t be that important to the team as just a college student. If I set this up sooner rather than later, I would have done just fine mentoring Shaker.
All of this being said, I fully plan to mentor 2791 again. Maybe this time I’ll actually know enough to teach them something. But I’m not naive enough to think that I should skip classes for them, or that my role on the team is more important than a successful academic career. At least, I tell myself that now… I told myself that last semester too. 