Hang in there. You've got this!

Hey everyone,

I wanted to open up about something we don’t talk about enough in FRC: mental health. It’s definitely something that is discussed frequently but I felt the need to put out a reminder as kickoff approaches.

We’re all here to push ourselves, build incredible robots, and compete, but let’s be real—the stress and pressure can hit hard. And if you’re anything like me, you know how easy it is to get caught up in the grind, where suddenly all you’re thinking about is meeting deadlines, nailing that design, and doing everything to get the team ahead.

I’ve been there—those late nights, all-nighters, hours of troubleshooting, trying to balance team tasks with school, friends, family stuff, and still feeling the pressure to keep up. Sometimes it gets so intense you wonder if you can keep going. And the thing is, I know I’m not the only one feeling this.

So let’s just put it out there: as much as FRC is about building a robot, it’s not worth sacrificing your mental health for it. FRC is amazing and can teach us so much, but no competition, project, or goal is worth burning yourself out. We’re here to grow, to learn together, to have fun, and to challenge ourselves. But sometimes we lose sight of all that when we let the pressure take over.

It’s okay to lean on your teammates and mentors—sharing the load doesn’t make you any less dedicated. If you’re feeling the weight, reach out to someone on the team or to a mentor. You might be surprised at how supportive people can be, and chances are, they’ve been there, too.

And honestly, take breaks. You’ve probably heard this a million times, heck even I’ve heard it many times and still have yet to get into the habit of doing this, but just stepping away for a few minutes can make a huge difference. Breathe, get outside, grab a snack, listen to a song you love—anything that helps you reset. The robot or whatever you have worked on so far will still be there when you get back, and you’ll be more ready to tackle it.

Also, let’s remember why we’re all here. FRC is about pushing ourselves, but it’s also about enjoying the experience, learning, and working as a team. If it starts feeling like it’s constantly dragging you down, that’s a sign to take a step back and think about how you’re approaching it. Sometimes, setting boundaries and limiting the hours you put in actually helps you work smarter, not harder. Learn to say no. We’re all better teammates when we’re rested, balanced, and feeling good.

And if you’re really struggling, please reach out. Whether it’s to a friend, family member, or even a counselor, talking to someone can help more than you might realize. No one should feel like they have to handle everything alone, and mental health is way too important to put on the back burner.

Here’s the truth: as much as FRC can feel like a job, and it’s awesome for teaching us real-life skills, it’s not worth jeopardizing your well-being over. When all is said and done, people may not remember how many all-nighters you pulled or how stressed you were before competition. They’ll remember the energy, kindness, and positivity you brought to the team. Don’t let a robot take that away from you.

FRC should challenge us, but not break us. Let’s make it our goal to create a space where we can work hard, support each other, and still look after ourselves. If you’re feeling the pressure, just please know you’re not alone. We’ve all been there, and we’ve got each other’s backs. You’re doing amazing things—remember to take care of yourself along the way!

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I still think @mrnoble said it best here, but reminders are still good

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Yet this is the power of the program.

Not enough time.
Not enough resources.
Not enough anything.

As a student and a student driven team you have a deadline. You have other responsibilities and expectations. You are a High school student with high school things to do. You want to go out with friends. And your parents and family also want a part of your life before you leave the nest.

But there is that deadline you need to meet.

Welcome to starting to become an adult.

What many students (and adults) don’t realize is that our anxiety just doesn’t go away. It festers. It builds upon itself. And it becomes a crushing weight that we don’t recognize until it is too cumbersome. And even then most don’t realize it until it breaks a person.

But what is a great balance for all of us is the act of gratitude. And man, Woodie hit it on the head with the gracious part of Gracious Professionalism. It is not just being nice to others, it is beyond that with being grateful. And then acting upon that. Not for selfish reasons, but just the servitude towards others.

We have recognized that recently on FRC4607. Case in point as we were parking cars at a local event we realized that we are a community support organization that builds a robot. Most of our time is spent on community outreach with our local fraternal and faith organizations than we are in FRC.

And we have witnessed this change in our students in the last 5-7 years with their mental health. And every time we come back from an outreach event, the students are more energized and looking forward to the next event.

Where our local DECA, NHS, student council struggle to get members dedicated to outreach, we don’t have that problem.

After all of that, please don’t read this as FRC4607 has all the answers and does everything right, because we don’t. But this has worked for us the last few years.

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Yes, for sure! And I absolutely couldn’t agree more with this mindset. 4607 is a perfect example of getting results and meeting deadlines (and having a menace of a robot) without throwing away your mental health and it really shows at competitions both in terms of their robot performance and the way the team is presented.

I just wish more students in the program thought this way. Robotics is meant to energize you and it is about more than just your robot. It is sad when some students develop tunnel vision and start seeing even outreach that is supposed to bring about this positive change and energize you (like Mr.Jurek thoughtfully said here) into just another way to get awards and go to Houston and start stressing out even about that. Not that working toward awards is bad by any means, it’s I think we all need to work towards shifting our mindset towards what the program is all about like you said to actually start seeing results in a healthy way.

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Does your team have a write up on how you achieve this balance? Sorry if it has been posted somewhere before. It just sounds like you’re saying adding community service to the robotics team schedule fixes the energy and mental health drain.

As someone who has been diagnosed with PTSD due to my experiences with robotics, I would like to also add one thing.

It is okay if you do everything this post says and still end up struggling with your mental health. FRC is hard. It is high commitment, absurdly expensive, and filled with as many bad people as good people. It is okay to take longer breaks, leave your team, switch teams, talk to team leadership, set boundaries, not volunteer at every comp, and so on.

I’m writing this because it’s what I desperately needed to hear a year ago, and now I hope someone else is reading this and processing the idea that robotics should be fun. It should feel like a safe space above everything else. If it doesn’t feel like that, it’s okay to do something about it.

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Two of my favorite contributions I made to my team:

  1. The creation of our dance corner, for people to listen to their favorite music and dance.
  2. Team wide breaks to play games (ultimate Frisbee, soccer, catch)

Basically, implementing two mental health coping mechanisms

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Remind of this Wednesday. I am headed to Chicago for the Pack Expo for the Pack Challenge. I will have more bandwidth after Wednesday.

The only thing I’d add to this post is that it applies to the mentors too. Being a mentor can feel like having the world on your shoulders, not wanting to disappoint kids who are working so hard. You can feel alone, desperate, and stressed beyond belief in addition to whatever other responsibilities you have in life.

Recognize that stress is real, and it takes a toll on you.

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