*Originally posted by ChrisH *
**I have found the printed books sent with the earlier versions of 3DStudio to be very helpful. (I’m learning on 2.5, I gave all the newer versions to students)
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If you wanted to go even farther back in the dark ages, I still have 3D studio r4 from '97 
As far as the main question, just one tutorial or book isn’t going to make you an expert, or even proficient. The best way to learn 3D studio is to practice, read, practice, read, and practice 10 times more.
As far as whether 3d studio max is the best software out there, the answer should be a question asking for what purpose.
Remember that almost all movies with affects were done using custom software and/or custom plugins. To compare what is availible to students and to movie studios isn’t fair, even if the software is similar.