My philosophy is that my role as a mentor is to be trusted by my students, and, reciprocally, to trust my students.
But let me be clear - this trust I’m talking about isn’t a passive thing. I have to ask my students if they’re happy with their experience with me as a mentor. I have to spend a lot of time training my students in the preseason. I have to step back and give my students opportunities to fail. All of those things were hard for me to pull off last season, but I tried my best. And I like to think that I grew as a result - hopefully as much as my students did.
I personally agree with the other voices in this thread - the balance is incredibly situational. On 6844, there are some students where the balance is such where I need to be more active, and there are other students where I need to step back more - in the same meeting.
But can we please have a civil, thoughtful discussion here? The amount of invective on this thread is mind-boggling. I personally think that it’s both appropriate and constructive to discuss mentor/student dynamics in depth.
We design a new robot every year, but we can’t forget that we also design a new team every year as folks come and go.
